Our Sunday Drive

Are you ready for a road trip?

The past is a place of reference, not a place of residence, but oh, what a ride!
- Roy T. Bennett

Let’s Go for a Drive

I can still remember the smell of our new car.  

It was a Friday afternoon when our dad drove home with a shiny new 1956 Two-Tone Green Oldsmobile Holiday. Long and sleek. Green and white leather seats. Tapered fins. Standard white-wall tires.
1956 Holiday Oldsmobile
We were excited, but dinnertime was dinnertime, firm and punctual.  And Saturdays were workdays.  It was a long wait until Sunday.

But first, our Sunday routine: 10:00 Mass, dinner of homemade spaghetti and meatballs, salad greens from the garden, topped off with Mom’s sponge cake.

After the dishes were washed and put away, and changing from our Sunday best, anticipation was in the air.

I vividly remember wearing green corduroy slacks and a brown crew neck sweater with a white peter-pan collar folded neatly at the neckline.

I was ready for the cue:

"Let's go for a drive."

Sign of the Times

Life felt easy on those Sunday drives with no clear destination in mind.  New communities were popping up like mushrooms, so we often drove to see them.  We heard about a $30,000 house being built.  We had to see that kind of extravagance!  Life motored on and felt as smooth as our well-oiled V-8 Olds.

But life wasn't easy for my parents' generation who knew firsthand sacrifice, loss and sorrow. They lived through the Great Depression followed by the anguish of World War II. When our dads, the lucky ones, returned from the war, America went to work, rebuilding a country and strengthening families used to rationed food, the woe of war and hard times.

There were few jobs for returning soldiers so temporary GI homes were built for struggling families such as ours. I remember living in a government enclave, very different from my free-spirited years on the family farm.


But America would not be restrained. New roads and bridges meant America was back to work. My dad found a good paying job and we were soon humming along, just like our country.

That 1956 two-tone-green Oldsmobile seemed to steer us straight into middle-class America.

And we did not look back.

Steering Straight Through Hard Times

Remember the large steering wheel?
Large scale for the places we intended to go
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It's All About the Steering . . .

Fueled by boundless energy, my post war generation grew up with a front row seat to a new future. We were handed the keys to endless possibilities against the beat of a rising new rhythm of life: Rock n' Roll.
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You write the history books, and I will write the music, and we will see which carries more impact. (unknown)
Groundwork is laid. Be ready. Ignite. Stand in the realm of possibilities.  
-----David Levithan.

Music as our transport, gives

Wings to the mind,
Flight to the imagination
And life to everything.
― Plato
Sunday Afternoon:  Where did your family go on those Sunday drives?

I remember one Sunday afternoon when my little brother Larry and I drove to Batso State Forest in the pinelands of Southern New Jersy, just to see what we might discover.

After parking the car, we continued on foot through the thick yet quiet forest and came across centuries old footings, skeletons of what was once an army garrison, constructed during the Revolutionary War. Now, almost entirely swallowed up by the forest floor, the scars of war found their healing amid new growth and the birth of a nation.

Life itself is victorious if we have the drive to preserve it.

g. hill
Preserving the Past 
Road trips carry more than luggage. Our family stories travel with us, tracing the lines between now and then. They need to be told. My little eight year old Marco often pleads, 

"GiGi, tell me a story about long ago."

And "Long ago" feels like only a moment ago.
----g. hill
Tucked in a Moment: Our Recreation Story

Ever wonder how much ignition is generated in one moment of life? Identity, resolve, steel, determination, belonging, fuel and drive.
When grit, possibilities and resolve settle in, they become solid and immovable, and we remember who we are, recreated, once again.
~g. hill
And looking at them, Jesus said to them, 
“With people this is impossible, but with God,
all things are possible."
-----Matthew 19:26
Wherever you go, whatever the road conditions or the warning signs, be sure to carry your own sunshine.
Unknown
My First Love: My Own Car, a 1964 Pontiac LeMans. Red leather seats. It took me from my home state of New Jersey west to Colorado where my dreams were as tall and rugged as the Rocky Mountains.
 We must remember that while we are descendants of the past, 
we are parents of the future,
~ Herbert Spencer

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For more stories of yesteryear:  Lessons from the Old Cedar Chest, I am From . . , and Time Frames.

See also: https://faithit.com/on-a-wing-and-a-prayer-true-story/

12 Comments Add yours

  1. Lori Pohlman says:

    You bring so many memories alive for me, and I would guess, for all of your readers. Our Oldsmobile was a light shade of purple and white. We went for Sunday drives, too, and when we were lucky, Dad would pull in to the A & W for root beer floats. đź’™

    1. So sweet to call up those dear memories we often have in common and replay them in our hearts. We remember the small details, like the A & W root beer floats and my green corduroys.

  2. Nancy E Buhrer says:

    oh Gloria, so many memories with this one– absolutely gorgeous!!! thank you- Nance

    1. Thank you, Nance. I do love looking back at where we’ve been. The view from the rear window can offer perspectives on the issues of today. We find our commonalities in our shared experiences.
      Who knows, we might have crossed paths on one of our Sunday drives.

      1. Nancy E Buhrer says:

        am smiling– oh yes we may have crossed paths on one of those drives!!

  3. Carol Pinnel says:

    My parents also took us on a drive every Sunday. My Dad liked to find cows grazing on a hillside. Maybe that was peaceful to him. We were always excited to go. Such a simple family time. I hope I have passed down some special times that my children and grandchildren will always remember. We were lucky when my Dad returned from the war. My great grandfather had a house and needed some help. I grew up in that house and always loved it. And Mom had a cedar chest that looked exactly like your picture, and held the winter clothes. See you soon.

    1. Oh yes, cows! I liked them too. Even though we were surrounded by farms, to see any cows or horses, we would drive to Cowtown, NJ. Thank you, Carol, for sharing your memories, too.

  4. Paula Lee says:

    Hello Sweet Gloria❤️❤️Thank you for “Our Sunday Drive”.As so

  5. Georgia says:

    Our Sunday drives were in a Rambler, I don’t remember whether we took my mother’s sedan or my dad’s station wagon. We usually did the country – I loved the horses, my younger sister loved the cows.
    My first car was a 1958 Ford called Rinky Guts. Looked like hell, but ran like a dream.

    Thanks for the good memories

    1. Georgia, I remember the Rambler. Wasn’t it a Dodge? Thank you for sharing your memories. Somehow they remain alive.

      1. Georgia says:

        Ramblers were a make, like Dodge or Chevy. We had a number of them over the years until they disappeared.

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