The Family Perennials: Stories for the Generations

Our children are fortunate. They have a life of material comforts.  

They need to know about another kind of plenty: the storehouses of fortitude, determination and boundless faith carved into their own DNA, forged from ancestors' toils.  

There are stories to be told, the perennials to be generated over and over. 

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Stories I Want My Grandchildren to Know:

  • Their great-great grandparents came to America for a better life for their children and their children’s children.
  • They arrived tired, dirty, poor, uneducated but ready to work the land.
  • They brought strange foods like spaghetti and pizza and a faith that endured many hardships.
  • The US government needed farmers. For $500, my grandparents could purchase acres of land with the agreement that they would farm the land and pay the taxes.
  • When their children were old enough, they found work. The money earned was given to the parents for home improvements and farm equipment.
  • The depression of the 1930s was hard for all, but our farmer-ancestors always had food from the land and shared what they grew with other needy families.
  • There was no insurance. If a house burned it was a total loss and families started all over.
  • The old homestead caught fire! The neighbors came to help douse the fire. They pitched in to help rebuild and do the farm chores.
  • After the WWII, their great-grandfather returned to civilian life in a country reeling from the human and economic costs of the war. With little money in his pocket, he married my mother and they lived in government housing known as GI homes. My brother and I lived there too. I remember them as small shacks where veterans could get a head-start in providing for their families. It was the start they needed.
  • Our ancestors were not perfect but they did the best they could with what they had.
  • We are stronger than we know; we can endure the rocks in the road ahead.
Family stories can be told nearly anywhere. They cost us only our time, our memories, our creativity. They can inspire us, protect us, and bind us to others. So be generous with your stories, and be generous in your stories. Remember that your children may have them for a lifetime.
     -----Elaine Reese
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Telling our family stories can lead to self-discovery and a broader sense of connection and healing.
      ------Mary Beth Sammons
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When we share our stories, it opens up our hearts for other people to share their stories. 

And it gives us the sense that we are not alone on this journey.   
         ------ Janine Shepherd
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And sometimes the best memories were nonverbal:

My favorite memory that spoke volumes was the silent smile creases extending from the corners of my grandpop's eyes.  

A farmer's work was never done:  up before dawn and coming in late for the night's supper.  But whenever I called out, "Hey Grandpop!", I would watch his eyes disappear into lengthening wrinkles and I knew those creases were for me. 

What are your favorite memores?
       ------ G. Hill
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Bedtime is story time.
Hmmm. What story should I tell them tonight?
You shall teach them to your children, speaking of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.
      ------ Deuteronomy 11:19

More on this theme of family: Sandcastles: building lives together and Sunflower Seeds: Lessons we teach each other.

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6 Comments Add yours

  1. don brubaker says:

    All your posts are good. This one is especially so. It calls out to me to write down many memories so my sons, grand children and future great grandchildren have a sense of what life was like in far simpler times. They should know that the values bestowed on them have been handed down through a rich family tradition. Personally, I can go back only as far as my grandparents, but that will keep me busy for months, if not years. Our roots in America date back to 1717. A family historical society has published books on our ancestry. But documenting 300 years of history is not the same as sharing personal experiences and feelings.

    My new goal is to get pen and paper and start writing. So many things to share! I have my work cut out for me, but that’s a good thing. It will be challenging, fun and very time consuming. That’s fine…..I’m retired. 😂 Hopefully my finished product will make it so no one will ever say to themselves, “I wish I had asked more questions.” Maybe other readers will do the same. Thanks for providing a nudge.
    Sent from my iPhone


    1. You are lucky to be able to retrieve family stories from the 1700s. We don’t have the family stories from Italy. It’s as though my grandparents left the old country way behind. All I know is that they were from very poor families in southern Italy. Owning a home was unreachable. They looked across the Atlantic to America, the country that held all their dreams.


  2. Nancy E Buhrer says:

    Gosh Gloria this is awesome as I remember so many memories visiting my Grandparents and the stories they told- yes I need to take a few minutes to write these down so as to preserve them and to appreciate what they went through! Thank you!


    1. It’s good to remember and honor the ordeals our ancestors went through and it really wasn’t that long ago.


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